Health Advice & Resources

Notable and rapid memory loss in dementia patients are caused by physical changes in the brain, with cells dying at a faster rate than normal.

Distinguish between typical ageing from dementia by keeping an eye out for frequent pausing when searching for words or a striking decline in memory for recent events. Mr N may have difficulty remembering recent conversations but can remember what happened when he was younger. By chatting with him, you might even learn a thing or two about his childhood!

Some experts suggest speaking to dementia patients as though you're in their time period as reminding them that they're "wrong" about the year may be stressors.

We all misplace things, but Mr N may leave belongings in the most unusual of places (like leaving an iron in the fridge) and is unable to retrace his steps. In such situations, placate and help him to solve the problem, like telling him that you will help to search for the lost item.

Sense of direction and spatial orientation usually worsen during the early onset of dementia. Mr N may often forget how he arrived at a location or where he currently is. Try understanding the reasons behind his behaviour and ensuring that he is safe.

Mr N may experience difficulty in concentrating and may take a longer time to complete things than before. This change may gradually affect his lifestyle as he finds it harder to make plans or decisions.

You know your loved one best, so respond to them accordingly. For example, if Mr N has a stubborn character, forcing him to make a decision won't work. Practise patience and guide him through the process instead.

It may feel like a switch is present in Mr N's mind. Each time it clicks, his attention either switches to something else or he abruptly forgets what he's doing in that moment and becomes upset. Confusion,anxiety, anger and fear are common emotions a dementia patient may experience. Take baby steps and slowly learn to recognise the situations that may upset them.

The confusion and fear that Mr N is experiencing may result in withdrawal, such as a refusal to go out as he used to. While you may be tempted to force him to get out of the house to get fresh air as he's used to doing, perhaps be a little more flexible and try to understand the motivations behind his behaviour..

The best solution may be to seek professional medical help. Sometimes, however, a little white lie works wonders (like enticing Mr N with his favourite food) when getting him to go out or to see the doctor.

It's been widely documented that giving dementia patients the respect they deserve helps best. Feeling understood is crucial to everybody's well-being, and an improved understanding of a dementia patient's actions will improve your attitudes and responses towards them.